Oh my.
So many of you really are upset by my “From Trust to Intimacy” article. I’d just like to point out to everyone that I am not a professional, and that my advice is like ketchup- some people love it, some people hate it, and it’ll do no good trying to convince the other party that they’re wrong. In particular, I had wanted to address one point that many people don’t seem to comprehend: I am not slut-shaming. If I were, I’d be talking shit on my own kind. As I said once before, the part that many people seemed riled up about are NOT my opinions based in reality- they are basic plot devices that have been used for years.
And as far as kink-shaming goes, perhaps I let too much opinion slip into that, but the erotica market serves a large population that has specific kinks- kinks that sell and kinks that don’t. You are more likely to sell a book with the focus on BDSM than on Waterworks. It’s not as personal as it is factual.
On another note: I will be taking a hiatus. It’ll be difficult for me to update here and continue to write and deal with reality, so please enjoy the articles I have posted, and if you have any questions, I will be checking the ask box.
